Ask the person in the mirror to change before you ask anyone else.
We are all Divine beings and the challenging conflicts and confrontations we have with our families, loved ones or business partners often mean something in our lives needs to change. The important part of the challenge or obstacle is recognizing that the greatest need for change is within us. It is not our mother, father, husband, wife, man, woman, partner, children, sibling or friend that need's to change. It is you and you alone that needs to shift if you want to see change in your life. The change may be in the form of your thinking, your actions, or simply your prayers. The first step is to look in the mirror when you profess things must change and ask what I am willing to do to change the circumstances of my life.
Start with that question and build change around the answer. Have faith in the divine wisdom of the Great Spirit to guide and carry you through.
Dr. Ma'at E. L. Lewis